The Order of Love - Family Constellations
Hellinger´s Approach

"WHEN WE UNDERSTAND the systemic laws that allow love to unfold, we may be able to help suffering families and individuals to find solutions. It's profoundly moving to observe clients approach the Order of Love and spontaneously melt into soft and intimate love, even after a lifetime of hate, anger and abuse"

Quote from 'Love's Hidden Symmetry' 

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Books and other Media in English

Hellinger's Therapy
6 book(s)

Love's Own Truths: Bonding and Balancing in Intimate Relationships by Bert Hellinger ********** 10 Stars! More about this book / Author ISBN: 1891944487 Price: US$ 48.95 ... Check Availability from Amazon.com Check Availability from Barnes & Noble Check Availability from: Canada ... United Kingdom ... Deutchland ... France ... Japan
Touching Love: A Teaching Seminar With Bert Hellinger and Hunter Beaumont by Bert Hellinger ******** 8 Stars! More about this book / Author ISBN: 3896701223 Price: US$ 28.00 ... Check Availability from Amazon.com Check Availability from Barnes & Noble Check Availability from: Canada ... United Kingdom ... Deutchland ... France ... Japan
Supporting Love : How Love Works in Couple Relationships by Bert Hellinger ******** 8 Stars! More about this book / Author ISBN: 1891944495 Price: US$ 32.95 ... Check Availability from Amazon.com Check Availability from Barnes & Noble Check Availability from: Canada ... United Kingdom ... Deutchland ... France ... Japan
On Life & Other Paradoxes: Aphorisms and Little Stories from Bert Hellinger by Bert Hellinger ******* 7 Stars! More about this book / Author ISBN: 1891944894 Price: US$ 14.95 ... Check Availability from Amazon.com Check Availability from Barnes & Noble Check Availability from: Canada ... United Kingdom ... Deutchland ... France ... Japan
Love's Hidden Symmetry: What Makes Love Work in Relationships by Bert Hellinger ******* 7 Stars! More about this book / Author ISBN: 1891944002 Price: US$ 26.60 ... Check Availability from Amazon.com Check Availability from Barnes & Noble Check Availability from: Canada ... United Kingdom ... Deutchland ... France ... Japan
Acknowledging What Is: Conversations With Bert Hellinger by Bert Hellinger ******* 7 Stars! More about this book / Author ISBN: 1891944320 Price: US$ 13.27 ... Check Availability from Amazon.com Check Availability from Barnes & Noble Check Availability from: Canada ... United Kingdom ... Deutchland ... France ... Japan

Love's Hidden Symmetry. What Makes Love Work in Relationships - Bert Hellinger / Gunthard Weber / Hunter Beaumont 1998 
352 pages. ISBN 1-891944-00-2 
Carl-Auer-Systeme Verlag and Zeig, Tucker & Theissen, Inc.

Bert Hellinger, Gunthard Weber and Hunter Beaumont have collaborated to present a beautiful collage of poetry, healing stories, transcripts of psychotherapeutic work and moving explanations of the hidden dynamics and symmetry love follows in intimate relationships. Original and provocative enough to change how you think about familiar themes.


Touching Love. Bert Hellinger at Work with Family Systems. Documentation of a Three-Day-Course for Psychotherapists and their Clients 1997 
186 pages. ISBN 3-8967 0-022-7 . Carl-Auer-Systeme Verlag

Bert Hellinger demonstrates the Hidden Symmetry of Love operating unseen in the lives of persons suffering with serious illness and difficult life circumstances. This book is a full documentation of a workshop for
professionals held near London in February, 1996. 


Touching Love (Volume 2 ). A Teaching Seminar with Bert Hellinger and Hunter Baumont 1999 
256 pages. ISBN 3-89670- 122-3 
Carl-Auer-Systeme Verlag and Zeig, Tucker & Theissen, Inc.

This book contains the written documentation of a three-day-course for
psychotherapists and their clients. It offers mental health professionals
and interested non-professional readers a look in slow-motion at Bert
Hellinger and Hunter Beaumont at work. 


Acknowledging What Is. Conversations with Bert Hellinger 1999 
162 pages. ISBN 1-891944-32-0 
Zeig, Tucker & Theissen, Inc.


Deepen your understanding of Hellinger's transformative ideas on the
»Natural Orders of Love« with his latest work - a moving dialog between the tough-minded journalist and the »Caretaker of the Soul«.



Supporting Love
Edited by Johannes Neuhauser
The english edition of »Wie Liebe gelingt« (coming soon)


Movements of the Soul. Family Constellations in Israel 2001 
280 pages 
Carl Auer System Verlag and Zeig, Tucker & Theissen, Inc. 
This book documents a seminar by Bert Hellinger in Tel Aviv.



The following videos documenting Bert Hellinger's work are available in
English as single editions:



Holding Love. A Teaching Seminar on Love's Hidden Symmetry
3 Volumes. Length 7 hours.
in PAL (European) format: Carl-Auer-Systeme Verlag ISBN 3-89670 -173-8


in NTSC (American) format: Zeig, Tucker & Theissen, Inc., ISBN 1-891944-75-4


Zeig, Tucker & Theissen, Inc
1935 East Aurelius Avenue. Phoenix, AZ 85020-5543 , Fax ++ 1 602 944-8118 


The professional Reference Series documents Bert Hellingers
resolution-oriented approach to working with intimate relationship systems.

The series is intended primarily for practitioners who wish to learn this
approach. Holding Love was recorded in San Francisco (1999). The
participants are mental health professionals and their clients, and the
work covers a wide range of issues.



Healing Love. A Teaching Seminar on Love's Hidden Symmetry
3 Volumes. Length 7 hours.
in PAL format from Carl-Auer-Systeme Verlag, 
in NTSC format from Zeig, Tucker & Theissen, Inc.


Healing Love was recorded in Washington (1999). Like Holding Love it is intended primarily for practioners who wish to learn this approachThe
participants are mental health professionals and their clients, and the
work covers a wide range of issues


The following six English-language videos documenting Bert Hellinger's work are available in the series Love's Hidden Symmetry 
(Volume 1 to 6 ):
in PAL from Carl-Auer-Systeme Verlag
in NTSC from Zeig, Tucker & Theissen, Inc.


Adoption (Volume 1 )
1 VHS-Cassette. 90 minutes. ISBN 3-89670 -072-3 

Hellinger demonstrates how »love's hidden symmetry« can guide families in distress. In this case, workshop participants who are dealing with problems related to adoption discover ways to support hopeful alternatives in their lives.



Honoring the Dead and Facing Death (Volume 2 )
1 VHS-Cassette. 80 minutes. ISBN 3-89670- 154-1 


Three different family constellations are presented to reveal the depth and
power of this approach as family members struggle to deal with the
difficult issues of death and dying.




Blind Love - Enlightened Love (Volume 3 )
1 VHS-Cassette. 75 minutes. ISBN 3-89670 -155-X 

This presentation shows how children's blind love for their parents
perpetuates family dysfunction. In three family constellations Hellinger
demonstrates how this love can be transformed into the enlightened love
that supports well-being.




Grieving for Children (Volume 4 )
1 VHS-Cassette. 70 minutes. ISBN 3-8967 0-156-8 


In this powerful video, four different family systems move toward
resolution in the wake of the loss of a child.



Trans-Generational Systemic Effects (Volume 5 )
1 VHS-Cassette. 70 minutes. ISBN 3-89670 -157-6 


Hellinger guides participants toward restoration of the flow of love that
nurtures growth when entanglements across generations have disrupted it.



Hidden Family Dynamics (Volume 6 )
1 VHS-Cassette. 70 minutes. ISBN 3-89670- 158-4 


Four family constellations show the harmful identifications that children sometimes have with parents and grandparents. Hellinger works with participants to acknowledge hidden dynamics and to discover healthy ways to recover compassion and love.

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