I am just curious about the social dynamics of America. Most of the time, the person who spread to others knew they have some kind of STD for no one can miss the uncomfortness and signs of initial episode whether mild or heavy. God is very fair. Why did He let initial episode to be so sever for most people and why outbreak is usually 2 to 14 days after sex? That is God's wisdom.
For my case, my parents met each other as virgin at 20 and 23 year old, and never divorce nor believe people sleep around. To be worse is their profession are school teachers, so not much contact with the cunningness of the world. Even now, when I complained why don't my parents tell me about Herpes nor any STD, they are speechless that is why I named myself speechlessly50 here. They still think people as they way they are taught with Confucious kindness and law abiding citizen. At one time, they asked me to trust my current boyfriend before I found him lie, for certain time my boyfriend just turned off the cellular phones for days that I thought he must be dating with others. Now, I had turned to be preventative instead of waiting till someone hurt you. One Christian brother told me since the Bible said no one is good, not even one is good according to God's standard, why not be prepared for people to hurt you, that you will not died naively. He taught me to protect myself by thinking the person must be bad and in what ways I can counteract those acts if they really happened.
For most people, they contact Herpes so young that they only heard about Herpes nor STD when they had it. They are still so young as not to qualify for car insurance discount at age 25, can be still claimed as dependent for income tax filing if they are full time student, and can still be recruited to the army for USA's army welcomes anyone under 27. Should they not finger pointing what the society is doing to hurt the young?
Also, women lust after men in lifetime fewer than men that they don't sleep for lust but out of love or manipulation. There is a study that in a women's lifetime, how many times they lust after a guy, the number in average is 3 to 4 times. Women thought about marriage first no matter how much they lust after a guy( it would be the wallet of the guy first ), got fewer contact with pornography, have a smaller social circle, and met fewer suitable man. I am not blaming on the guys for men and women are different. Maybe women are so attractive to men that in the study, the men replied they lust after women all the time and every day. In that study some men even said they love to peek at boobs at work or any hallway, elevator they walk admist business day, as they are taller and I don't blame them.