The title of your post brought back hazy memory of same type of dream. I've had at least one before in which I had a penis,
(Im heterosexual female) and somehow managed to "go down" on myself. Anythony asked if I was double jointed. In this one Im really unclear... Don't know if there were two of me, or if I was
a hermaphadite. Definately had the penis, and some thoughts about how long and flexible it had to be, to contort like that. But there was also a "from behind" posture, that makes me wonder if there were two of us. Very confusing, but made a connection to
self-stimulation that was a BIG issue for me while growing up in a catholic environment. I'm just beginning to see/sense some connection to my underdeveloped male side because of the repression I was brought up in. Don't know if any of this helps shed light on YOUR dream, but think I've gleaned a bit from mine.