LEAVE THE LOSER...HE IS A DOG....AND YOU ARE HIS TOY...UNTIL YOU WISE UP AND SAY LATER...WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND...KARMA

Hmm...sounds like you are really unhappy. It's seems to me based on your post that you trust this guy, why stay with a guy if you don't trust him? I know that you care for him a lot and all, but it appears he is causing you a lot of stress, and you will be an emotional wreck for the next two months if you stay with him. Also, it's not like he is going across the state, he's going to another country. He has cheated once and told you, but this time he could very well cheat on you and you would never know. I wish you the best of luck, but I think you should ditch him. Take Care~

I'm sorry that you are having to go through this.. I know how you feel all too well.
Ask yourself this- If you were in his situation and had the chance would YOU have cheated on him? No.. because you had respect for him and your relationship. He however, did not. Once the trust is gone, it's gone and the relationship is never the same.
A long time ago I made the foolish choice of staying with a girlfriend that I found in bed with another guy.. We stayed together for about a year and a half. I never treated her the same after that and she finally got sick of it and ended up leaving me for my cousin who was also my best friend (or at least I thought) at he time..
It was a very big mistake to think that things would ever be the same after the first time.
It sounds like you already know that you need to break up with him.. You just need to do it. For your own self respect let him go and dont look back. You deserve someone better.
As you go through this just remember- take things one day at a time and things definetly will get better someday soon. Take care.

you sound unhappy and stressed and unsure.
that is not love.
i would not say abandon teh relationship.. esp since you did say the had no intimacies/ and he did feel open enuff with you to share with you soem thing that heknew woudl risk the relationship..
apparently you gav ehim signals that youdid in fact forgive him and truste dhim since he has now been flirtin online.. perhaps youand he (as most guys and gals do) have definite differences of opinions of relationship etiqueette
you in a way gav ehim the go head.. he thinks as long as he is not doing the deed that the flirting is ok .. and it may truly be innocen t flirting.. but if it bothers you / then you need to be honest and say so.. hey !!yuo rflirting may make you get an ego boost but it destroys me and my trust in you , yo uknow?
i woudl definitely take a breather if it were me..
i fyou have a plac eto go for several months then go..
ge tout with jstu soem friedns and get a good persepectiv eon life in general and what you expect form a realtion ship
you are definitley not flourishing under your current circumstances. consider waht guidelines you wan tto see followed in a relationship and when he returns be honest and say i am not willing to stay unhappy and stressed and uncertain.. this is a new day.. and tak eit a day at a time... i fyou honestly feel you cannot trust him.. theere is notihing in teh world that can chnage that underlying feeling.. too many fish in sea and too littel time of life on earth,relax and enjoy life and tak econtrol of your own goals..you can never make anyone be wah tyou want them to be anyhow. obviously he is not amkign you happy at all.. this doesn tmean you dont care about him or lov ehim...or same vice versa from him..it jsut means you are not buildign a good relationship of trust and intimacy.
hav eyou considered maybe he told you this stuff and has been doign things he knows would bother you on purpose? because he my inwardly wan ta change anyhow? ot believe it or not soem guys liek to keep a gal jealous for their own ego boosts too.. conciously or subconciously it is still veyr danaging to your self esteem and you dont need an environmetn liek that.. tell him go have fun , bu tthat you willbe takign a *vaction 8 too whiel he is gone, and if he has pets et che needs paln to have them taken care of caus eit is not your job.. you are going on a vacation too.. get my drift? dont say it spitefully .. but jstu hoep youhave a great tiem , i knwo i paln to *smile*
Ami B. ps and don't go cheat jstu to get a jump on what may not even be ahppeneign at all

I have one rule of thumb. If your partner cheats on you once, chances are it is going to happen again. My point of view is that a relationship is based on trust. It happened to me once, but never again. It is very difficult to trust again once someone has broken the chain. Remember, we must never break the chain! It is stated in the bible, to never tire of loyalty. Faithfulness in a relationship is the most sacred part of love. If he is not loyal, then there is a problem.

All the best to you and your relationship.

Regards,
Joe