Well I am new to this, so excuse me if I sound weird with this hehe.
I guess to start off, I just got out of a very abusive relationship with my ex. We at one point were engaged to be married, but that never happened. She has cheated on me in the past, and even a few months ago got a little touchy feely with someone while she was away. So I got mad, and told her that I wanted nothing to do with her anymore. I did feel empty due to the fact that we had been together for a while.
Well I am a user of myspace. I enjoy meeting new people on there, and have found a lot of new veried friends on there. Well I have started to really get to know this one girl on there, and she really peaked my interest. Her interests are the same as mine and we enjoy the same things. She really started coming on stronger when she knew I had split with my ex (this was a couple of months ago). I love the idea that she would like to hang out, and get to know each other a little better.
But now there is a slight problem. Another girl that I am friends with on myspace, has also shown an interest in me. I love chatting with her, and all, but once again, once she found out I had split with my ex, she came on a little stronger.
I have stopped to think about if I had hooked up with either one of them if it would be a rebound or something more serious. I am not really greaving over my ex, in a matter of fact, I am pretty happy to have her gone because she was pretty much a leech, both mentally and financially. She never had anything positive to say, and was just always a downer. The two girls that are interested in me, I am interested in. Both have a lot in common with me, and are both very beautiful. But to be quite honest, I don't really know what to do about it. I am the type of guy who wants to be in a relationship for the long run. I want to be able to get married and the whole bit! I am 25, so yeah it's on my mind a lot. I want to get to know them both better, maybe to see which one is the better person for me, but I don't want it to look like I am a player or anything. I'm just not that way. Does anyone have some suggestions? I could use any help I can get.