Back in the Dark Ages of the 1960's & '70's, Gloria Steinem (SP?) was behind the Women's Movement, in a great big way. She felt that women were overworked, underappreciated, and had a Right to a certain quality of Life: women did not have to be housewives (married to the house) or mothers if they so chose.
Her best line, which I still use, today, was, "A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle."
Get strong, young lady. Finish your education. Evolve into a self-assured, independent woman and, THEN, you will find a PARTNER, not a slave driver.
Best of wishes to you.