I agree it is a shame, they don't know what they are missing.
I have lots of love stored up inside, but, it's hard to give it to someone that just wants to be a roommate. I also work from home, thats not an excuse. I chose to work from home to be with my wife more. Now she says I am always there. Maybe loving someone to much is a bad thing. Now she just does her own thing and I stay home wanting.