It has been a long time since you posted here. A good thing. You had helped me when I was having difficulties, if you recall. I am Archus from New York. I wanted to quit and give up my marriage, thanks to you, I am still married and do have my share of problems, but manageable.
I cannot believe Lake is 3 years old. I also want to tell you that talk it out, but no shouting matches. Do not ever fight in front of Lake, they get get a second hand abuse when parents fight. Also Erik will realize that you are a true giver, so be that.
You can always post me on my personal email.
You said you did not have a home to go back to, why?