That's exactly how I felt. My boyfriend is a great guy takes care of me, makes me laugh, loves me, and does anything to make me happy. Then out of no where I woke up one morning nit picking everything he does, I didn't want to leave him but I just didn't care. Well I found this web page and everything made sense. I'm not a big fan of birth control or at least hormonal birth control. I had mine in for ten months and got it removed on Tuesday. I'm already starting to feel better. The mood swings still show up from time but not as severe or as bad. My suggestion is to get it removed. It'll take a while for everything to go back to normal but it will.