The guy in jail I'm no longer talking to, or having anything to do with. You guys have really helped. Now I understand what my boyfriend did was wrong with the other female, but he did it, it happens, you learn to forgive and forget. If you love somebody you let it go. That's what I'm doing. Letting it go, I love him. He's my best friend, my lover, and someone that screwed up. He's human. Like me, what he did was wrong yea, I can't defend that. Neither can he. But talking about this has made me realized how much I really care about him. Thank you guys!!!!