no, what I wanted to say to you was very different, and the title misled me. I think that, ok let's forget about the bad guy, there could be many reasons why you find him interesting, but one of them (an important one) is that the other guy, the "good" one, might be good but he doesn't talk to your soul, he doesn't make you dream, you don't love him bottom line. A girl pass by so-so men until she finds a man there is no doubt about, and you haven't arrived there yet. Continue searching and listen to the advice of Molly who's a very smart girl meanwhile. That is, forget about forgettable men, you have a life to live.
god luck with everything
(consider the fun cities and the travelling before the kids in the suburbs, you can have all of them but only in that sequence...)