I totally agree with you 100% Doctors have jobs becacuse of patients and if they do want to listen to us than they need to look for another profession!! I belive the makers of mirena and any other birth control product should have to try there own products for a year before place it on the market men and women both!! I can't help but be conveinced that a man was behind the making of mirena, in which case he should have to walk around too with this thing placed in him, just so he what we are going through :P. And for the doctor who basically told me not to worry about my iud, because she had hers placed 3 months ago an is fine; I hope to fine her on this site saying help yank this thing out!!! AHHHHH so mad right now!! Well I'm very thankful for this site and all the support and answers that I have gooten so far from everyone, you just don't know how much all this means to me knowing that I'm am not alone.