Re: miscarriage caused by mirena
please do not blame yourself. i am so sorry you have to go through this pain. it is not your fault. i had a miscarriage 5 years ago. i was only 7 weeks along. i actually thought my heart was going to break. i felt like i would never get back to normal. i also went through a post partum thing. i cried until there were no more tears left. i did not have mirena at the time. i felt like i had done something wrong to cause the miscarriage. the doctor told me that a woman goes through a hormone shift between 7 and 9 weeks. she said sometimes the chromosomes sometimes do not come together correctly and your body will miscarry. i looked up on the internet and found that one in four pregnancys end in miscarriage.
mirena looks like a dream come true. they make it look just wonderful. they made me feel like i would be stupid for not getting mirena. i felt like this was the best decision in the world at the time. i was told there were no side effects and it did not go into the bloodstream. unfortunately they are in it for the money.
women need to know mirena is dangerous. we are given incomplete information. it is important for women to know what has happened to you.
i wish i could write something to make you feel better. please take care of yourself. i know this is a difficult time for you. it helped me when i wrote down how i was feeling. a woman knows when the soul of the fetus is gone. do not blame yourself. it is not your fault.