Thanks Dutchmom you really have been a big support to me. My first period was pretty normal so I hope that doesn't mean all these pains and things are from something else. I do notice that my weakness and pain is worse just after I wake up. I wonder if that is because my elbow and knee are bent while Im asleep. That could be a dumb thought, who knows. I guess I thought after I had my first period that i wouldn't have any really bad days anymore. The way I feel today disappointed me.