No dutchmom, I dont think your obsessed. I have been feeling this way too. My husband hasnt said anything but I have wondered if he thinks that. I try to get on when he is not around. I just think we are suffering and searching for someone to understand and relate to how we are feeling. I feel a connection with some of you and I think It would be fun if we could get together and talk. I know that wont happen though. Those that are feeling better dont get on this website that much, I bet. They probably check back and write now and again but if it were obsession they would still be on all the time. Dont leave dutchmom cause others out there need your imput and help.