But that's ok. Some guys don't need to be "the one". You enjoy the guy's company when it fits your schedule, nothing wrong with that! I'm a guy, by the way, and we guys have kept plenty of gals around that we knew weren't the ones, but they were a good time. Their company was more important than bells, whistles, and fireworks every time we met. I have more women friends than men, back in college and even now. Life is good! Some were romantic, some not. In fact, as I see it, you're a lucky woman. And smart. You kind of feel that he's not your prince so you're not pushing the point that he'll develop into the prince. Princes are princes. You need the "stomach flip". That's a woman's inner signal to move forward with purpose, and I'm impressed that you're listening. Many woman are fools and desperate to have whoever chums up to them. You will definately know who is the ultimate guy for you. That's a guarantee, and you will also know who's not the ultimate. Don't dump him, just keep him around and enjoy life. Loose leash...know what I mean?