I find your writing interesting.
Everything happens for reason.
So does alcoholism, narcissism, and personality disorders of any kind.
It is not always the persons own fault to have such conditions, but society fails to see the reality.
People (often in the position with authority) misjudge the poor sufferers of those disorders.
I guess if one had a normal upbringing, it is too hard to see beyond that!
People with alcoholism, narcissism, and personality disorders are seen in the eyes of normal people as guilty for their own condition often caused by surroundings where they lived.
Been there! I should know!