My boyfriend would never give up custody of his child. Understand that when I say I dont agree with how they are raising him, im not calling him a bad parent. Its just not how I would raise a child, I dont believe in spoiling, etc what not.
The boyfriend isnt looking to be with non maternal types and have children with them. He had his son when he was 20 and so was the childs mother. He wanted her to have an abortion because he knew he wasnt ready. She refused, and said she wanted a child. BUt once the baby was born, she didnt want much to do with him.
My boyfriend has done most of the raising of him, with help from his parents.
Like I said, Im not judging him or his parenting, I have my complaints but its not like Im anyone to know about whats best for kids either.