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Re: Whats the best outcome here? -need some good advice
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Re: Whats the best outcome here? -need some good advice

I get what you are saying Gilda, but I want to know how is it all MY fault?
Shouldnt the DAD be the one looking out for the kid?
I have no idea about kids, what they need, how they acted, what they are like to be around. So I didnt get what I was even entering into.
If he feels like my issues are such a problem, I feel he shouldnt have
pressured ME to be with him, to live with him etc.
It just makes me mad, its kinda like saying I have more responsibility
to this child than his own parents. Its not my fault his mother is abandoning
him. Im sorry if he isnt my number one priority in life. My happiness matters
too. His father has every right to do whats best for him, if he thought
I wasnt good enough to be around him because of my issues, then he wouldnt
have me around him. He doesnt care that I never wanted kids, etc. He says
its up to me whether I can deal with it or not. I actually feel better
about the whole thing because he seems to accept me for who I am, and
doesnt expect me to want to be a parent just because he is. (after we
talked about it more he understands more where Im coming from I think).


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