It was hours ago that I read and wrote my post and I just came back to read around. Well now I can honestly say that after reading and rereading everything on here, I can't sem to pick up my jaw off the floor and my tongue is hanging out about three feet away from me.
You obviously have a lot of patience and I believe you must be trying to make yourself understood because you think it might be of help to someone out there,
but fact is, you're better off keeping your pearls in your pockets honey.
Sin can be a real problem, but you know how it is. Some philosopher person said 'I think, therefore I am', but they could just as easily have said 'I am, therefore I sin'. Nowdays just the concept of sin is a non PC, faux-pas.