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yes, I agree to some extent.. I had always thought virginity was too highly prized which is why I went the one night stand option! I too wanted it 'out of the way' and in some ways it did help me to have further sexual relationships as the next ones came within a few months. I guess I just felt distressed because in hindsight it was with someone that was not someone I would have otherwise looked twice at and I sometimes wish it hadn't been so negative, particularly as I'd some relationships with some GREAT guys. But yes, I think we do need to be careful about worrying too much or you set yourself up for looking for the 'perfect' experience and it will never match up.
I think having had the experience your confidence increases in lots of ways and it is is a positive thing. But my advice is still do what makes you comfortable!


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