>>Part of the problem I have is spending time reviewing some of the posts on other forums where those who Bash and Complain have set up shop!<<
This is where my Vanity is getting the Best of me, when I take the time to respond!<<
Your vanity is THE problem and it's not just your response to others, it's your continued thinking about what others are thinking about you.
Why is it so important for you to have others approval?
Why do you care what anyone says about you and your protocols?
If you really believe in what you have to teach, then you do not need to defend yourself, ever.
The majority of people are not heckling your protocols: Eat good quality food, remineralise, grow food, cheap mineral drinks etc .. most of it people agree with. They are just bored and irritated by your meddling in their business and the childish tit-for-tat.
What you are accusing others of doing is in fact what you are doing yourself. You are the amplifier.
>>The Bible tells us to not answer a Fool in his folly!<<
The Bible also tells us:
"Judge not lest ye be judged"
"Turn the other cheek"
"Love thy enemies"
If you could try and remember those then you wouldn't get into so much trouble ... again and again and again!
>>I believe that once I am able to Master myself to Stop reading any other forums and spend my time just on this forum, that much of this problem may be resolved!<<
Ahem!!!!!!!! Isn't this what I said to you right at the beginning and on an ongoing basis? Isn't this why Lapis requested a forum for you and why I originally agreed to moderate for you? And how many years has it been, and nothing has changed?
>>Now the question I am trying to figure out is How to deal with those who choose of their own Free will to come to this forum to Start Trouble!<<
You are drawing them in. If you stop supplying the manure, the flies won't come.
>>This is where it gets sticky!
How do I determine and sort out those Genuinely Seeking Help, against the Trouble makers?
What action do I take and How soon against trouble Makers?
If I believe they by their post are Seeking to make Trouble, do I Immediately Ban them?
If in their 1st post, they decide to start telling me How to run this forum, immediately Ban them?
If I feel they are just Seeking to make trouble, do I resist making any reply to them and let others reply and see where it leads and their reactions, before deciding to Ban them?
This is a Big problem for me to decide who, what, when, to ban and not chase away any who are Genuinely Seeking Healing!
I feel that if I can implement a system to control my actions to not cause any who are Genuinely Seeking Healing to feel intimadated or manipulated, as it seems some feel, that we should be able to help many more folks Genuinely Seeking Healing!
In the past I have resisted answering some posts because of the way the person 1st started posting, which made me wary of their True intentions!
Because of this I have been accused of not helping those Seeking.
It has seemed to make no difference how I approach the problem, that I would always end up having a problem, which would grow out of proportion and end up with folks who felt they had Hurt feelings, Egos etc!
I wish to come up with a Solution to overcome this Great Problem!
For the Whole Purpose of this forum should be to help folks who are Genuinely Seeking the Truths in Healing!
I am going to try to implement these ideas which have been made known to me as may be the Solution to bring Peace and Harmony to this forum!<<
There has only ever been ONE solution to Peace and harmony.
It's to BECOME the Peace and Harmony you seek.
It's so simple.
You attract to you what you give out.
It's all about YOUR vibes!
Cause and effect :-)
If any of you feel I am stepping out of line from what God requires of us who are supposed to be representing him, Please let me know, so I may have your support in this Goal!
God requires you to Love UNCONDITIONALLY.
GOD IS LOVE? If you represent God, then you represent Love.
Love does not criticise, condemn, war, hate, fight, call names ....
What would LOVE do in any situation? If you could use that to answer each of your own questions then you might get the best God-given solutions.