Right now, I am preparing for a trip and won't be around a computer.
Until then, consider the following:
1. God's Love speaks through the heart, not from the intellectual mind.
2. All that is "good" integrates, coming from Love. That which is "bad" separates, and comes from fear. Of course, the reality is that nothing is good or bad, life in itself is meaningless, apart from the meaning we give to it.
3. The Bible was not written by God, but man. Man translates everything through his own personal filters and based on belief systems. If you agree that God's/Jesus's Love is unconditional, then you may re-read the Bible and look for what is Truth and what is man's misinterpretation.
4. Unconditional Love means WITHOUT Conditions. If you read anywhere that God's Love has conditions, then that is NOT the word of God, but man made.
I will respond more in a few days time to answer your specific questions.