Thanks to JP20 I can now go out in public without fear of my lips going to shit for a few hours. I tried something different though and I like the results so far.
I coated my lips in vegetable glycerin and let that dry. Then I blot on this balm I have from Aveeno. It has Shea butter and some other stuff but has an SPF of 15 or 20 I think.
This combination keeps my lips looking good for a few hours. Talking to much or being out in the sun dries them up though. I am sure I could find a better balm but right now this combination lets me go out in public and feel comfortable cause it keeps my lips looking and feeling normalish.