I did something similar. After being with my ex wife for about a year she cheated on me. I was about 23 yrs old then. I was young, stupid, and naive. I had just started going to church and heard the "God can fix all things, and with Him all things are possible...and He has fixed many marriages."
Now i'm not denying God cannot do these things, He absolutely can and has. But cmon, i just got married, we're practically still in the honey moon stage, this was a red flag and i didn't make the right choice to stay with someone like that.
You know the real reason i divorced my ex wife was because it was inconvenient for me to be with her. You can't have AF and be with someone that the wind carries easily from one place to another.
When you have AF you need a stable person to be with who will help you keep your sanity, not make you go more crazy than what you already are. However, i strongly believe that the person who is sick also needs to suck it up and do their part and try and act as normal as possible or else you're going to stress out your partner. And your partner is probably already stressed out with the fact that you're not normal.
Anyway, i know you're divorced but just throwing that out there for those who are married or got bfs and gfs.
I strongly believe that i prob would not have gotten sick if i was not in this toxic relationship. I should've divorced my ex the first time she cheated for the simple fact that it was wayyy too soon to be cheated on. I can understand a moment of weakness after 7 years at the office ONE TIME. But to do it after one year or to do it repeatedly is a different matter.
Avoiding all stress is one of the solutions to AF, but life is full of stresses no matter what direction we take. Even having fun is a stress to the body