Good for you!!!! The best way to become a good lover is to become a better masturbator. It is safe and unless you can give yourself a better ogasm than anyone else, the sex will be mediocre at best because the burden of your neediness and dependence on someone else will strain the relationship. Last night a beautiful young gay man came over to my house to get some Colloidal Silver . He is a magnificent specimen of a human being in his early 20's and he already has both HIV and Condyloma. That is where you will have ended up too, if you hadn't started taking better care of yourself. Spend some time studying creative self-gratification techniques and get to know yourself better. Are you gay by default, choice, through conditioning, or by natural design?