About this boyfriend, think about your age when you became involved with him. You were only 11 1/2 years old. On the boyfriend's part, that's atrocious and you didn't deserve anything that has happened, including experiencing your parents reactions.
You type as if you are very insightful for your age - use that to your advantage and make any and every call that you can that will help YOU, and you, first.
You do have people who care about you, and you probably don't know it. The boyfriend? Please....... Your parents sound as if they need help, themselves. Give that hotline a call and you will be provided with as much help as you need for as long as you need it.
Today is Independence Day in the U.S. Make today YOUR day of independence and help yourself to the best of your ability.
Again........brightest blessings of comfort and courage to you.........you are precious in this Universe and let no one - not even parents - tell you that you're not.