Hi Marylo! Not sure what I can add to your remark about your sons. Seems to me you have an idea of what this dream is about. The image of the three of them, in bed together, would indicate some sort of mutually beneficial relationship. When you go to the empty bed it's with the intent of finding out what he (your x) has been up to. You find a gold pendant. I find this very interesting. This pendant seems like it can be worn as jewelry, as an ornament. The image on the pendant itself is one of a trophy. This brings to mind "trophy wife", or perhaps trophy girlfriend. Maybe the only value he sees in women is how they can enhance him? Whatever his view, it's one you feel your sons share with him. These are my thoughts. Marj