Don't worry about it Rainy. I have found that you sometimes can't talk about gifts, talents, blessings, wealth, good marriages, without causing some issues. I have always thought that speaking in tongues should be spoken about in personal church membership and not with those that do not believe in it. It's a gift, plain and simple. There are many things I'm not gifted with. It's all part of God's plan for our lives. We will each be given different gifts. We have purpose and most of us will not know what that purpose is until God reveals it to us.