Tansy: Living in the Spirit, tut tut tut, it is breaking Curezone rules to disclose private pm's but if you are only going to post part of a pm you need to post all of it and not just the bits you want people to read. you left out the bits where you asked me to answer two questions about Rainy? Why?
Ed: I posted my own words to you, not yours to me and i specifically posted the two sentences which i felt were pertinent in response to what you said and which clarified the truth of what transpired to counter your intentional misrepresentation. Now you are addressing something different and I don't have any problem with sharing those two perfectly natural questions which were part of the process of exploring for whether or not you had become unbiased and sincere through Rainy's admission of wrong doing which obviously you haven't. The two natural questions in response to Rainy's apology were as follows, "Out of curiosity, were you surprised when Rainy apologized for her behavior and did her acknowledgement of misbehavior change your perspective in any ways?
Also out of curiosity, is there anything i had written in my responses to you that you now see differently?
It is you who initiated the public discussion as to the content of the private messages, so maybe it would be helpful for you to allow the hypocrisy of what you are doing to sink in?
I have really been patient with you Tansy, but at this point i think you are going out of your way to be exceedingly manipulative and deceitful. I would only encourage you to examine your heart and to be very careful as to whose child you are choosing to be. I so deeply hope you are able to recognize this cluster of sin you are in and that you will make the right decision to turn from it. The first step would need to be a sincere willingness to take a deeply honest look at yourself.