Your message is very encouraging, but I am so scare of spreading to my fiance. He said he took pity on me and will marry me. However, I am so scare if I will spread to me as well as one day inficted to other parts of the body by him. e.g. once he dares to put his finger in me without gloves. When considering to me single, I know I need a guy to help me to at least move heavier objects and I am so sicked with herpes in lip that herpes will move in scalp, nose, ears that I can't take a stressful job. He is the provider, then. Pls advise. Thanks.