"Anyway, you could theoretically have herpes in your body, I suppose, but very rare that the first outbreak is not a huge event. Herpes is not a subtle disease and it is most difficult when it is first introduced to the body. Flu symptoms, painful swollen glands, horrible itching and pain."
a lot of people do not have any sickness in thier first outbreak and this is one of the reasons that it is spread. people do not know that they have it!