If health insurance is so important to you, your goal is to find a company that provides health insurance even if the salary is lower. Most teller, dental office receptionist or even waitress in a large restaurant has health insurance offered if work full time. Don't work part time, some companies put employees on part time as to avoid the health insurance.
I don't know if you are in the U.S.A or not. If in the U.S.A., and if you are not legally married to your husband, that is you do not have the marriage license yet, you can go to any Blue Cross or whatever insurance agent advertised in the newspaper to apply. If the health insurance company kick you out, the agent will help you to apply for MRMIP ( Major Risk Medical Insurance Program ), which is sponsored by the State Government. I was accepted to MRMIP thru' this way and in California. MRMIP in California offers Blue Cross/PPO & HMO and Kaiser for patients to choose. In other words, the State Government pays Blue Cross and Kaiser some money for them to accept patients with high risk, which usually with pre-existing conditions. After 36 months enrollment, the State Law requires those health insurance companies to drop the patient from MRMIP to normal/health patient premium. That is from MRMIP's $ 350/month to Blue Cross PPO's $100/month.
I don't know how much one has in the bank account in order to qualify for Medical/Medicare----$2000 in savings is what I heard, and must not have a large transaction to other bank accounts in the last 5 years. Medical/Medicare is for low income. A house does not count as cash. However, I don't know if Medicare/Medical covers for Valtrex, but at least health insurance to see a doctor for car accidents or a cold.
Also, apply a job as sales representative for Valtrex. GlaxoSmithKline Pharmaceuticals just have a jobfair in Burlingame, California on 2/14/06.
I only eat raw vegetables, cooked vegetables and one or two piece of meats/fishes no bigger than my palm daily, so the body is not so acidic, and have fewer outbreaks.
Be creative in sex by introducing clean sex toy. Be very careful with those aids as we don't want to create a third person---at least an image among monogamy couples so he will not be addicted to that. Some examples are no female dolls, no pictures, just sometime to stimulate his senses in his private part. Check out in a sex toy store, if there is any doubt, check out with a marriage counselor or pastor. Sex toy is allowed due to some couples, especially man might lose the ability before v1agra was invented.
Though it is frustrating to a guy, he will accept things as it is as time goes by. Try to impress him in other areas to make up for this frustration e.g. if he likes business---read a lot about his business or talk with a lot of people in his field, so he will be impressed by the advice you gave him. Hope these ideas helped.