Thank you for your gentle but realistic response. I guess we'll just play the waiting game for the next 2-14 days!
I typically won't even think about being active if I even think there's a chance I might be having an outbreak. I'm pretty paranoid, that's why I'm so upset. I read in an older post about somebody always spraying themselves with diluted hydroden pyroxide down there before any sexual activity because it kills the virus on the surface of the skin during asymptomitic shedding. Does this work? Would it mess up the natural female chemistry down there? If there's anything I can do to take one more step to protect my partner from getting this, I want to do it!!