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Can I sue my date for giving me Herpes( HS2 )?
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Can I sue my date for giving me Herpes( HS2 )?

My ex-date gave me HS2 when I was 24 year old, and I am a woman now 34 year old. My ex-date coaxed,insisted or even force me by dumping me on bed with the judo he learned whenever he saw me. I am a petite and Asian while he is 150lb and caucasian. He is a womanizer, so I gave him up after 7 years of on and off relationship. Also, at 29 year old, I was baptised as a Christian while he was a non-Christian. Eversince I have HS2,I have outbreak everyweek, so I need to see alternative doctor, e.g. flying to Reno, Nevada for I.V. Hydrogen Peroxide. So the bills ended up to $ 1500 per month. Now, I am growing closer to God, and had met a Christian brother who wants to marry me but hope I will be healed before married. If I am not healed, he said he does not know what to do, while I said it is better fo us to separate, as to avoid infecting him, and he re-infecting me. Should I sue my date ( by the fourth year, he said I am his girlfriend but I was so broken hearted to see him seducing another woman while we ate in the restaurant, or in trade shows that I prefer to call him ex-date only. The name girlfriend does not mean anything to me anymore. My ex-date is now married for years, and he is moderately financial successful. His father is a diplomate. Me, I am an alien came to the United States to study Computer Science---struggling with English, U.S. Cuture and work. Recently, I infected my lip with HS2 for not knowing HS2 can be transmitted to other part of body. Though I am not lay-off,I have to quit the job due to can't concentrate while HS2 viruses crawling in the bloodstream of the nose, ears, scalp and boy, yesterday to tongue. The itch and pain is 8 times more sensitive than lower part. Just as my current boyfriend said, my life is ruined.


To give you more of my background, my mother never talked about STD and thinks I am the worst person in the world. The reason is I am a girl borned to her family and burdened her financially, as she wants a boy and not a girl. She tortured me so much that my relatives considered her crazy. Now I understood and can forgive her. She does not have the schooling, work opportunities that I have, and is not as prettier as me, that she is bitter for having to use her money to raise another woman who will lead a better life than her. I hope someday I can lead her to God, for she does not have the Truth and peace, that she is mentally illed.

My ex-date said he was attracted to me but he wanted a girl who has the qualities that his father required, which I am not going to detail. However, after years of marriage, he still called me up, and said he just wanted to please his father as he is father's favorite child. It took me 10 years to walk out and be healed from this abusive relationship. Now, I don't know if I should sue my ex-date for my life is ruined by HS2. I can't even think about not forcing my future husband to wear latex gloves whenever he wants to touch me, but how long will my future husband want to wear the cold gloves and not feeling my warm, smooth skin? How many times he or me has to wash and disinfect stuffs? How I can't live together with my future mother-in-law who does not drive, does not speak English but pray for me daily and taught me to love Jesus, torments me. ( My boyfriend does not want his mother to know I have HS2, so consider not living together with his mother for fear old lady will find out my wierd alternative medications in house while we are at work. ) Pls answer prayfully.

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