I came here to post another dream (re: Jesus) and was searching through the older messages (looking for Traceys favorite dream dictionary) and found your response.
Thanks so much for taking the time to respond and write so much!
You wrote so much that seemed right on target, and also spurned me to think of more.
I have recently realized that I no longer want to get involved with people who perceive themselves to be "broken" in hopes that I can save them (and they me). This came from my relationship with my father, and I am happy to say that I have been doing some major work this past year, and totally understand that I have never been "broken" but also that I can't save anyone else, either- they have to do it themselves.
So, (and this is probably the 'committment' part) I have decided that any future relationships (nothing going on in that department for quite some time! but that's okay for now)
will be all about feeling loved and cherised- imagine that!! :)
So perhaps the kidnapping was to take me away from that habitual pattern of trying to 'save' people?
It is true that I have always looked 'outside' to others for love, and that has gone through much change lately as well.
I would like to have a healthy relationship one day, but I am afraid of not being able to maintain this new sense of self- that I will just fall back into the bad old habits again.