Re: should i leave him? please advise
I'm sorry that you are having to go through this.. I know how you feel all too well.
Ask yourself this- If you were in his situation and had the chance would YOU have cheated on him? No.. because you had respect for him and your relationship. He however, did not. Once the trust is gone, it's gone and the relationship is never the same.
A long time ago I made the foolish choice of staying with a girlfriend that I found in bed with another guy.. We stayed together for about a year and a half. I never treated her the same after that and she finally got sick of it and ended up leaving me for my cousin who was also my best friend (or at least I thought) at he time..
It was a very big mistake to think that things would ever be the same after the first time.
It sounds like you already know that you need to break up with him.. You just need to do it. For your own self respect let him go and dont look back. You deserve someone better.
As you go through this just remember- take things one day at a time and things definetly will get better someday soon. Take care.