CureZone   Log On   Join
Re: Please help me.. :(
Wrenn Views: 956
Published: 20 years ago
This is a reply to # 529,432

Re: Please help me.. :(

wow please don't tak ethis as soundign judgemental
bu tif tha tis gonna jeopardise your marriage somethign is wrong/
you are both young.
you said it has been a recent occurance
he has had to movein with his mom !!
and a new husband
and feels he has to have sex with you and satisfy you or might lose you ( don't hink he ahsnt picke dup on your frustration)
and he is trying to deal with frustrations of schooland ahving to meet standards there to amintain grades and meet his goal so he can buidla better future fo rbo th of yo u..

mighti suggest you just put sex on a back burner next few time syou go? don't brush him off or be cold, in fact givehim lotaa love an massages and etc touching..
but don't push the sex issue or evne discuss it jstu smiel and say honey i knwo youare under alot af frustration
/ youahve a life time to ahve sex.. if you can't get thru this togehter then you are really gonna havea hard tiem if you ahve kids and he gets drive back bu tthen the shoe will b eon other foot... cause you will be tired and hormones and wt gain etc and feelign self concious and distracted form beign a mom..and i bet you will expect him to be understanding then to you ? right? so try to be tha t fo rhim now...
is there any way at all that you can moveout there and be with him?
get him out of his moms house?
when i first got married and was pg with my first child afe w year slater... we ahd to stay at my fathers house for about 3 months/ there was no way i woudl ahve ever had sex in that house... jstu beign there for ten minutes dorve me nuts! so don't down play tha oh he is a guy he sould wan tto evne if it is at his moms... i t does not work that way for eveyr one.he has told you thisis part of the reason take him at his word.. get him moved elsewhere !!
Ami B.

Printer-friendly version of this page Email this message to a friend
Alert Moderators
Report Spam or bad message  Alert Moderators on This GOOD Message

This Forum message belongs to a larger discussion thread. See the complete thread below. You can reply to this message!


Donate to CureZone

CureZone Newsletter is distributed in partnership with

Contact Us - Advertise - Stats

Copyright 1999 - 2023

0.938 sec, (1)