Goodness, I didn't mean to imply that disagreements are reactionary behavior, so let me clear that up right now.
I was addressing her second post where she said she would be afraid to follow through on her desires because of the negativity she may come up against.
You must admit, tho, that some of the counter-arguments were out and out judgments that she should not follow through on her desires. There's a fine line between saying "that wouldn't be right for ME" and saying "don't YOU do this." I'm all for the former, but argue against the latter. Of course she solicited these opinions so they were voiced in this way, so perhaps *I* was being reactionary to see them as being overly judgmental LOL! Thanks for getting me to look at myself objectively!