Since I am in your general age group, I can relate to your fears and heartache.
But it may be that this infection was acquired in any number of other ways, for much is known today about the raging epidemic of infections, and those who specialize in that area, that is to say, those who are in the alternative arena of medicine, but with impeccable credentials, have discovered that nearly 94 percent of all people tested have one or more latent and chronic infections, including the one that you mentioned.
A man that I know, for I am in the alternative field myself (herbs, etc), and who is a genius in his field, is Dr. Gary Gordon.
Some years back, I trusted him with my own mother, so you can see that I respect his abilities and even then, many years ago, he recorded every moment of his time with a patient, and then gave them a copy to take home and play so that there would be no questions about what was said.
Anyway, read these protocols for handling infections and learn a great deal more about the POSSIBILITY that this infection came from somewhere else.
Congratulations on your faithfulness.
When I was a teen...lo those many years ago...all I ever wanted was to be with one woman all of my life, one like me, imaginative, creative, humorous, a total giver without guile or "what's in it for me".
Unfortunately, the innate kindness with which I was blessed, and other factors, caused me to marry a hyper controlling woman who took kindness as a weakness to exploit.
I was loyal to her despite finally not wanting to even touch her at all, much less be intimate. A sick way to live, for sure, since I was a natural born passionate guy.
Anyway, go here and read. You will find hours of education with regard to infections and WHAT TO DO TO CONTROL THEM.