1. You are a woman
2. A woman should choose a MAN to be her life companion, for every time you allow one of those P's to enter you, there is a chance of a child being born.
It is your DUTY as a real woman to think of your own future and the future of your children, if any. And a real woman MUST be able to have total respect for the man that she allows into her body. Hot sex today means zilch in a year or ten. What matters is the integrity of your relationship and the respect and trust that has welded you together with a man who deserves a real woman.
Be mature. Look to the future. Look to your own integrity and precious womanhood.
This sick world of relationships today is largely because two neurotics meet, and for that moment at least, fulfill some neurotic need in the other.
So this seems to be an ideal answer to the insecurites in each party.
It AIN'T. Neurotics never build a solid family relationships.. It is not possible to do so. There must be rock solid respect and maturity to handle "life".
When this maturity is demonstrated and shared mutually, there is nothing that can drive a wedge between a real man and a real woman, for that relationship has the bonds of iron that comes from love and respect and maturity.
Do you think it will stop with panties?
Do you honestly think it hasn't gone beyond that already?
Take this obvious pride in yourself that you demonstrate, by virtue of being disgusted at what SHOULD disgust a real woman.....
Point the way to the hiway and be patient and find yourself a man of the old fashioned kind.
Strong, but gentle as a lamb with the woman he loves
Respects you to the max, but must respect himself first.
Is a tower of strength to you, to the kids of the future, and to friends and neighbors in times of trouble.