I take by the way you are writing, that you are female. There are numerous places to meet other females that may be a date for you. Do an search for your area or a city near you and see what you find. Look for bi sexual or lesbian clubs on the serch. Being with another woman that you desire and have feelings for is natural. It is just like a date with a guy. You have to know the other person more than a first date to have any type of relations with them. Feel it out and talk a lot. Find your likes and dislikes. When the time is right you will know. Enjoy it honey. There is nothing like it. :-)