Thanks so much for your advice. We actually were having sex a little while ago but the baby interupted that one (lol). Atleast we were doing it though. I definitely will get some sexy underware once I feel good enough about my body again (baby weight is slowly but surely coming off) and we've done the movie rental but I don't want to get in the habbit of that because I;d rather him think about me, not those girls. And believe me, I would love to wake him up with a blow job; I've even tried before. But he always pushes me away because he says he has to be and its uncomfortable. I'd love to do it in the middle of the night too but he's just too tired. I appreciate your ideas and welcome more if you have any. Thanks again.