My hubby and I have been together for 15 years. We have done most anything that we wanted to in or out of the bed. He loves for me to use my strap on in him. He however, has been sore of late, saying that his anus burns and is driving him crazy. I hump him about twice a week and use plenty of good water base lube. I have even given him a hot tub bath and wash him extra good and careful I have given him an enema before each time we get together. He loves the feeling of getting his butt done. I love the feeling of giving him that feeling. I guess it is all in return of him doing my butt and he loves it more since I am doing his.
What could be causing the soreness and burning sensation to his anus? Maybe it is the ky jelly we are using, I don’t know. We do use plenty of lube. I have even inserted a finger inside of him with lube on it before the dildo goes in. The dildo is of standard size, 6 inches long and about 1-1/2 inches across.