Let me tell you something about this. All the guys that I have gone down on (not that many) and sucked off, love for me to swallow their cum. There has been some that, like to see it shoot on my breats and then they will lick it off. I have only had one guy who refused to kiss me after I gave him a blow job. My hubby loves it and even does me real good. We always give head before and after intercourse. If he has a hang up on this, ask him just to taste it. It will not kill him. Does he pleasure you by sucking you off? What does he do when you cum on him?