Dear Andreas, I have been facing a problem again and again and I realized it Is time to think about it.
I would k=like your opinion.
When I came to the US I was very scared. I shared an apartment with another girl. I was so scared of her because she was very upset all the time, she was very spoiled, used to yell and was very depressed.
I decided to move out. I went to a male friendís apartment for some time and later moved alone.
I got very depressed living alone. I gained weight and was very anxious.
SO I moved again. I did not think that much where I wanted to move, I just did. I shared a house with two girls. My depression improved and I found curezone and I began cleanses. The situation was not perfect, but I adapted and try to be happy.
I moved again in August because problems with the landlord. (No major problems). I moved with one of my roommates since her lease was over. So, I was happy. But now I am having problems again. She is demanding from me unexpected things, and my explanations have not convinced her that those demands ( to buy things for the apartment ) can not be fulfilled for me. She wanted to have rugs and carpets, but I cannot afford them.
We have had two arguments. The fact that she insists in her point of view and she does not listen my point of view irritates me. She keeps trying to tell me I am not patient enough, (what I might be true) but she is not either. I also think that she does not talk clearly, she tells me things indirectly, and later she gets frustrated because I do not understand her. I was irritated, I asked her to talk later but she insisted. Later the conversation degenerated in an argument. Now I think she has been very selfish and very insensitive. I feel very upset and frustrated. I feel very dissapointed and I thought we were friends and that hurts me.
The fact that I nicely told her I did not have money and she insistes makes me very upset.
So I am thinking moving out again.
If you have enough time, can you tell me what do you think about that. How can I overcome this repetitive problem of moving out again an again?