I read earlier your post. I was at the computer lab, I printed it out and read again at home.
I printed also the information from the link you recommended.
I was so concentrated on my frustration and sadness and reading your post was so refreshing and nice!
Thank you so much. Your post is very beautiful and practical. It also makes a lot of sense. It is clear that I forget all the time my goals because I am so worried about everyday troubles. It is also clear that architects, designers, engineers, computer programmers, first have an idea in mind and then they project it in paper before it can become a real thing in this world. Now we can be the architects and designers of our own lifes.
Thank you for taking the time to write this. It has been very helpful and really changed my view of things and gives me hope that I can feel happier. I already shared this information with a friend ( He is looking for a girlfriend, he read very carefully how to set the goals :) ).