This Jenkins is A- a female and I have witnessed first hand what I explained to you. The fact that a 23year old would even consider a relationship with a 16 year old disturbs me. See a 16 year old can seem mature but trust me when I say you are only as mature as your experiences, and at 16 not much experience. Plus I remember when I was 16 and attention from an older man would have sent me through the roof with giddy-ness, because see at that age it is an affirmation that you are attractive and wanted etc. At 16 you are still just learning what it is like to have people respond to you in a way other than hey want to come out and play in the mud?? So sure wait til she is 18 if you want, and I do not care what the age of consent is where you are at anything under 18 should give a good man the creepie crawlies if he spend a few minutes thinking about what the age of 16 really is in terms of ones mental maturity. So I was not letting out any agression I was simply stating that this was a bad situation all around. And maybe you should check inside of yourself to see why you would consider this.