I am out of school. The thing is all the plans were made. I have a career and she was planning to continue with graduate school and stay with me until we got married. Then house etc. I mean everything was planned with dates and all. And now just nothing. I just don't understand how you can just throw away two and a half years over a silly arguement. My only guess is she really isn't emotionally mature to step away from her overprotective mom yet. She is still to dependant I guess. But... what do I do now. I sit here and wait with her clothes in my closet and her hairdryer on my bathroom sink and wonder what went wrong. The not knowing is the worst part.