Its great that your family and friends have pulled behind you on this one. It helps so much to have a support chain that is strong.
Something to think about... a burn party.
When my older brother divorced his first wife, he and I and one of his buddies went with him to his apartment. We rented a couple "guy movies", bought a case of coke and a bottle of bacardi and set about going through the house. TOP to BOTTOM. Nothing was left untouched, but we located EVERYTHING that she had left but didn't want, or had placed stratigically to make him think about her. By time the pizza had arrived the o'l BarBQ in the back had been fired up and was smoking nicely.
It's not easy, but this little "party" helped out a lot. And was hella fun.